Since I got so terribly infuriated [not other reasons but the intellectual ones - this remark is addressed to the male chauvinists] - I would only suggest that:
1. either a general [but genuinely] general forum is established or
2. we remain in this state which I find unendurable
3. for the sake of clarity - I do love ALL [or almost all ...] my fellow members on Caedes and share with love their lives, joys and sorrows - and I let my own joys and sorrows be shared with gratitude

not No 4. [some other idea which was the clue since the beginning]
There is something missing here, and I know why, how and when to make this website completely [or almost completely] satisfactory to all the members.
The present idea is ... to put it mildly - absurd, obsolete and reminds me A LOT about the socialist [or communist if you like] approach to life.
I do hope this message reaches somebody at least above aediles - otherwise all my efforts are lost.
In any case - these are my last days of hope for Caedes to survive - but never in its present shape !!!!!!
Yours most apologetic
and always ready to advise
SAM
Marzena.

Please feel free to use my e-mail address to make things go faster, if possible in our half-fossilised community.
I am saying this against all of you and against myself in the equal degree.
We should change some principles on Caedes - not just voting system or announcing favourites which I find at least strange ....

I'm afraid that I don't understand much of what you have said beyond a general feeling of discontent. Perhaps you could use simple statements and specific examples to make it more clear? You can always PM me directly if you prefer.

Thanks so much for replying.
Yes, the discontent has been growing for some time, but I have been far too busy to give it enough time or attention. I will now try to make myself clear - very soon. Promise.