Since I got so terribly infuriated [not other reasons but the intellectual ones - this remark is addressed to the male chauvinists] - I would only suggest that:
1. either a general [but genuinely] general forum is established or
2. we remain in this state which I find unendurable
3. for the sake of clarity - I do love ALL [or almost all ...] my fellow members on Caedes and share with love their lives, joys and sorrows - and I let my own joys and sorrows be shared with gratitude

not No 4. [some other idea which was the clue since the beginning]
There is something missing here, and I know why, how and when to make this website completely [or almost completely] satisfactory to all the members.
The present idea is ... to put it mildly - absurd, obsolete and reminds me A LOT about the socialist [or communist if you like] approach to life.
I do hope this message reaches somebody at least above aediles - otherwise all my efforts are lost.
In any case - these are my last days of hope for Caedes to survive - but never in its present shape !!!!!!
Yours most apologetic
and always ready to advise
SAM
Marzena.