yesterday i was wondering why i never saw the photographs that were sent in by very thoughtful people who were commenting on my photos. it occurred to me that even though i heard from some of them every day i just figured they didn't post. the purpose of this note is to tell you guys that even if you hear from someone over and over if you don't add them to YOUR friends list you won't know what they're presenting. so, for all of you who might be included in my oversight, I APOLOGIZE. i will become a better "friend". duh what can i say......i spend hours on my own pictures trying to present stuff. just call me thoughtless. jen

thanks jen! i took that as my cue to add people i perhaps should've some time ago

I am a newbie. How does the friends list work? I had a notification that someone wanted to add me to their friends list, so I clicked on it. That brought me to a screen that allowed me to check an OK box, then I hit the process checked items button. I still have zero friends. I apologize for making you disappear. I need a little help on getting this right, next time.

You can go to their profile page by clicking on their avatar and click the "Add Bonzo to your Friends List" button ... or .. go to your caedes control screen and enter names manually

The item you clicked on was your friends list in action .. but all you did was to make the notice go away, saying that you've read and understood the message

Hey Michael .... with a name like cyberbod .... how could I resist ? I put you on my friends list ... now ... all my friends give me Godiva Chocolates & have to do my homework & give me birthday presents too. Just so ya know ;oP

is cyberbod better than ichabod?

Ichabod happens to be an old college nickname of mine. I used to drive a green Grande Marque, nicknamed the limobod or limeobod. Laurengary, thanks for being my friend and all the privileges connected to it:) I got the friend thing down now. Thank you all for the advice!

Cyberbod is better than Ichabod if we're talking about the Ichabod Crane in Sleepy Hollow, all arms & legs & lanky & kinda clumsey. BUT ..... if we're talking Johnny Depp's Ichabod .... well that's a bod of a different color !

"sleepy hollow" was, for years, called "north tarrytown" in westchester, ny...until some wide eyed politico with too much time on his/her hands decided to revert to the old "sleepy hollow' name. sad, that a century-old piece of fiction is their only claim to fame...