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At Ease, Soldier
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Some of you met my friend John in a previous post. We made John an honorary member of our HOG (Harley Owners Group) Chapter and got him a bunch of t-shirts and baseball caps. He was tickled to death and wore a Harley t shirt over his Hospital gown constantly. One or more of our Group would make it a point to stop in and see him at least every couple of days (I made sure to stop in at least twice a week personally). When the Harley 105th Aniversary rolled around some of the celebration occured at Miller Park (Home of the Brewers). The VA Hospital and Woods National Cemetary are adjacent to Miller Park so John was able to sit by his window or out in front of the Hospital and watch the bikes go by. On Thursday the 28th of August, the night of the biggest festival at Miller Park we were able to get a bike with sidecar (John was by then to weak to hold on anymore) and take him for a run through the parking lot so he could see all the bikes and bikers up close and personal. He beamed the whole way, riding proud in his Harley T-shirt. I wanted a picture, but John refused...he was to embarrased by his physical condition. We rode him around for about 30 minutes and then took him back. John died in his sleep 6 days later on Wed, Sept 3rd. His daughter called me the next morning and broke the news. His final preperations had already been made, the funeral was held on Monday the 8th. True to our word we escorted the procession on our bikes, 4 of us in a flying wedge with the 5th spot vacant for our missing man. This shot is from Woods National Cemetery, John was laid to rest here. I did not wish to intrude on the families grief by asking to post photo's of the procession or his actual marker, nor am I sure I want to, for they are very personal markers of my own...but I have them and may someday reach that point. Thank you to everyone who has kept John in their prayers these last couple of months and who have taken the time to drop me line and inquire as to his health. He is at ease now.

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+nmsmith
09/11/08 8:30 PM GMT
Poignant, but beautiful episode in your life. He blessed your life, didn't he? My deepest sympathies at the parting of your friend.
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::danika
09/11/08 8:46 PM GMT
Rich ... I am sorry to hear about your friend, John. I know how much he meant to you. You & the other bikers gave him something very special his last few days of life ... he sounded very proud & I can imagine the smile on his face. I know you will miss him dearly ... just hold on to John's golden moments & the memories.

A beautiful post & tribute to your friend.
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Best wide-angle lens? Two steps backward. Look for the 'ah-ha'. Ernest Haas
.Stevenn120
09/11/08 9:16 PM GMT
Great post an story about a true friend,You made is time left worth every minute, You an the guys gave a lil, an got alot, weather you know it or not. (USN)
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Just a photographer no artist, I capture what I see :)
::PamParson
09/11/08 11:54 PM GMT
Rich,
So sorry to hear about John's passing, but I'm sure he was wearing his Harley T-shirt and had a smile on his face while he was dreaming of getting the wind in his face once again. God Bless you for making this man's last few months so wonderful.

I would love to ride with you sometime. (I'm a HOG member too). This is truly a beautiful and touching image as well. Nicely done and kudos to you & your fellow HOG's. Live to Ride, Ride to Live! ~ Pam
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"Make the most of yourself, for that is all there is of you" ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
.alan1250
09/12/08 1:19 AM GMT
Both a sad and proud moment. Thank you Rich. Thank you John. Well done.
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::cynlee
09/12/08 2:02 AM GMT
Poignant is right. I can't help but stare at the linear flow of those gravestones, so perfectly aligned and many in number. You sure made the old gentleman happy in his last days and that is what really matters. I am sorry for your loss.
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"Take it upon yourselves to be more forthright in your comments"* *Les (&purmusic)
::0930_23
09/12/08 2:19 AM GMT
Great shot and I am sure John's last few months were made much more bearable by the kindness of you and your friends. Makes me proud to know you. Another veteran laid to rest after serving his country to keep our way of life intact. I salute him and you. Good post and a good day to post it GBR. Never forget.

Tick
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I'll meet you at the edge of the sunlight, just behind the shadows. The Ghost
::solita17
09/12/08 5:20 AM GMT
Tick said it... I am also very proud to know you, Rich. Your gifts of the spirit to John in his last months speak more than volumes about you and your Harley Owners Group compatriots. Your image is another where I say to myself, "Oh... so many..." Life can be so very sad, and yet the spirit in each of us can soar in spite of the sorrow...
mary
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"Never let your studies interfere with your education." - Pete Seeger
::cctruckee
09/12/08 6:28 PM GMT
Giving, sharing, loving, respect, appreciation, warm heart, gentle being, brothers and sisters, friendship, hope, unity. These are but a few words and emotions that your post stir up in me, and what makes America the great country she is. Thank you Rich.
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~ cc de leo 'Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.'
::twinkel
09/12/08 6:57 PM GMT
Sorry to hear of John, Rich...but just like Sherree sais just remember him and give him a place in your heart forever:))
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laughter is the best medicine.
.Homtail
09/13/08 6:17 AM GMT
Rich i am so sorry for your loss. You perfect photograph is a fitting tribute and a wonderful memory!
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He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the almighty. I will say of the Lord, "He is my refuge and my fortress, my God in whom i trust". Psalm 91: 1 and 2
.ghostrider2112
09/13/08 4:25 PM GMT
The both of you sound like great friends to each other and you have honored him through your story and picture. I'm sorry for your loss.
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.johindes
09/20/08 6:17 PM GMT
What a beautiful tribute. I am so sorry for the loss of your friend.
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