Kathy, I think that the pollen of the Helenium may have caused its nickname. Like you, to me it doesn't justice to these fine flowers. It doesn't prevent me for enjoying them however.
If you think you can't accept something, try to change it. But if this doesn't work, don't be frustrated, but give it later another try. The one who perseveres wins!
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